"By your own efforts awaken yourself, watch yourself and live joyfully. Follow the truth of the way.reflect upon it. Make it your own. Live it."
-siddhartha Gautama
I hold a thought, a thread of truth, a belief that we can change ourselves physically through healthy eating, massage, light weight training, smart stretching and a touch of cardio. With this not only the physical body, but also the mind changes. This is done through physical practice, meditation, education, thoughtful self examination, awareness in connection with others, and the actions that we take that are outside of our comfort zone but transform the heart of who we are. To then take what we have learned into the field, to help those around us and never forget that we are part of a global community of lives joined together for this one fleeting lifetime. Every thought, word and action can make a difference. Let's do right by each other and strive for kindness, understanding and truth.
I began my research as a dancer, artist, and biologist. My studies brought fascinating enrichment in fitness, art, massage therapy, gymnastics, yoga, social justice, trauma informed yoga and retreats and travels worldwide. I wanted to make a difference and to help others see how incredible they are. I have always been a champion of the underdog, the different and those who think in new ways.
I currently teach my own style of yoga which you could call "fun and smart stretching with a little conditioning, done in a room full of excellent people."
I also am a bodyworker, a Structural Integrator and my work centers around shifting people out of pain and into alignment.
My hope is through both of these disciplines to help each individual find a way to walk freely, breath deeply and enjoy a strong, supple and well balanced body. Lastly I teach teachers. I teach them to teach others, to take care of themselves and what it is to be human and see another person as human.
I absolutely love what I do.
I am also a normal, regular, average, uncomplicated, and thoroughly human being. I have married and divorced, remarried and then redefined marriage. I have grey hairs and scars, I eat pizza and revel in television shows that are fun, or challenging, or just brilliant science fiction. I often do or say things that get me in trouble but hopefully in the end help me to be real and have honest and open relationships with those around me. I love my family both chosen and related.
I am beyond lucky to have found my two partners in Brandon and Julian. Brandon is an inspiring and remarkable man. He is an incredible hairstylist and makeup artist as well as a talented actor, singer, dancer and drag queen. He brings the joy and playfulness to everything we do. And Julian is a problem solving digital wizard and gaming mastermind. Julian, and his cat Fluff, remind us to be in nature, take new adventures and rest in the stillness and silence of each others company. Together we have built something unprecedented more stable and supportive that anything I have ever felt in my life.
That’s a little bit about me. I would also love to learn more about you! Come take a class, find me on Facebook or Instagram, send me a message and let's find out what we can unpack, discover and create together.
Kinesis Myofascial Integration & Massage Therapy
I started with a background in Orthobionomy and went on to study Kinesis Myofascial Integration with Tom Myers and become a Structural Integrator. I am a dedicated and driven bodyworker. My techniques are a blend of the last 10+ years of practicing with athletes, dancers, and yoga students. My focus is on postural realignment, freeing the body from scar tissue, increased mobility and freedom from pain and restriction. I am not a relaxation masseuse but am happy to refer you to some excellent people. I love anything complicated. The work can be intense but to see someone shift out of pain and feel empowered or stand taller and breathe deeper is one of the highlights of every day. I am excited by working with post surgery mobility, injury recovery and walking gait disfunction. If you would like to schedule a session please see the contact page.
Interview with Sara Boyce for A Delicious Lifestyle
Interview with Susan Cabana for Nourish Your Soul
Living & Loving Unconditionally Audio interview with Keith Callahan for The Business of Life
"On the Road to Find Out" Interview with Boston Yoga Magazine
“Privilege, Victimhood and Healing” With Tristan the Yogi
Interview with Lauren D’Angelo from Lola Yoga
Bullying Response on Youtube
"What a Tough Moment in Yoga Practice taught me about the Next Four Years"
ELEPHANT JOURNAL ARTICLE ON THE BENEFITS OF CHALLENGE AND IT'S POLITICAL IMPLICATIONS
“The purpose of yoga is awareness, not perfected poses, beliefs, or any kind of attainment. Awareness from moment to moment requires quiet strength, flexibility, and balance. A good yoga practice develops exactly these characteristics.” ~ Jim Gaudette
Let’s be honest, for many of us, this has been an appalling year.
Stupefying.
It has left us unsure of how to see hope or positivity.
I was thinking about this the other day as I was teaching a tough sequence in yoga class, and I felt a change in my perspective take place. I had an insight into what we can do to find authentic support and a powerful outlook.
At last, I started to rally.
In yoga, there are times when we are called upon to find our strength, flexibility and balance. The challenge is not just physical but mental—for we need the determination to build strength, the awareness to be open to new directions, and the patience to repeatedly try to balance.
As we bear with our obstacles, it will allow us to know ourselves better and to develop deeper emotional and physical skills and resilience.
After the challenge is over, we will find ourselves more centered, more efficient, more relaxed, more effective and incredibly capable of doing the work that needs to be done.
We are at the beginning of a four-year challenge.
It will take determination, awareness and patience. It will require daily practice. It will call on us to use and develop our skills now more than ever.
During this time, we will become strong, flexible and balanced. Strong enough to face daily oppression without allowing it to create bitterness or resentment. Flexible enough to find a way to release our arguments in order to hear, connect and possibly guide opposition to a place of understanding. Balanced enough to neither fill our lives with negativity nor to numb our feelings to get by. Rather, we will allow ourselves to spend more time doing the things that empower, nourish and bring us to equilibrium.
Let now be the rise of the warrior within.
Let love, compassion and equality for all people be our message. Let us come together in our communities and practice what it means to show up for each other.
We cannot be silent, but instead we must speak up, speak out and tell the stories that humanize us and allow people to see that we each have many dimensions.
Be visible, breathe and take action to create the world we want to live in, as well as foundations for our future.
Now is the time for all of us to know—beyond doubt and in every single moment—that we are not alone. We are incredible. And not only do we belong here, but we make the world a more diverse, fascinating and brilliant place.
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“The essence of warriorship, or the essence of human bravery, is refusing to give up on anyone or anything.”
~ Chögyam Trungpa
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Author: David Vendetti
Editor: Khara-Jade Warren
A post-op ode to a balanced hip practice for Spirit Life Magazine
“If you make the string too tight it will break. If you make the string too loose it will not play.” –Buddha
As I sit in bed sipping tea and some ice packs after my first of two hip surgeries, it seems like the perfect time to write down my thoughts on yoga and its loving relationship with our sweet and powerful hips.
Dr. Mininder Kocher of Boston Children’s Hospital – is one of the best in his field and I count myself very lucky to have him as my surgeon. After reviewing my MRI, he concluded that I have a cam-type deformity with impingement, mild fracturing and labral tearing on both sides (FAI). This means that the neck of my femur is too thick and the rim of the acetabulum (hip socket) protrudes too far, causing these two places to connect when they shouldn’t. This has created a grinding of the bone, tearing the rubber ring around the femoral head. Needless to say, I have been adapting to pain for years.
Dr. Kocher has assured me that my condition is congenital (a birth defect) and not due to the years of wear from gymnastics, ballet, and yoga practice. If anything, those practices helped me maintain strength and stability over the last few years despite the fact that both of my hips were falling apart. I can’t say I am totally sure this is true but he suggested that whether working at a desk or running a marathon at this age with this body the result would have been the same.
I am here to share with you today three of the most important discoveries in my last 24 years of yoga practice that have helped mitigate the pain from my hip injuries and maintain my balance, strength, and range of motion.
1. Stability is key.
Stability in the hips comes from strong glutes, a supple and powerful core and a full range of motion.
STRONG GLUTES
Getting your glutes to work is easy with poses like Warrior III, table top with leg extension, bridge with hip pulses and side plank. The important thing is not to compress when you are tightening. For example, in bridge pose you can engage your glutes in a way that compresses your lower back, or you can use the hamstrings to engage the glutes in a way that lengthens the lower back and makes space. Space making is everything!
Many yogis will tell you not to tighten your glutes in general. But have you ever tried to climb a flight of stairs without tightening your glutes? We definitely need these muscles to stand upright and move through space.
Now keep in mind that one size does not fit all. Everyone is unique and needs to practice differently. In Warrior II, you may know people who are sticking their hips out behind them (anterior tilt) – they need to lengthen the torso and activate the glutes to bring them under. Others will tuck the pelvis under (posterior tilt) – those people need to relax the glutes and lift the chest.
As a practitioner, it’s important to know what your basic posture is and then adjust your practice accordingly. Some people are too flexible and their work is to strengthen and stabilize, while others are already incredibly stable and strong but need to work on their flexibility to bring alignment.
A SUPPLE AND POWERFUL CORE
The second strengthener is the abdominals but to make sure you strengthen while pulling the navel in and up to alleviate compression on the lumbar spine. Without a strong core, some of your poses will end up straining the low back. With smart support your spine will be long and resilient.
The easiest way to strengthen the core is to place a block between the legs and hands behind the head. Curl the hips up 10 times gently and then lift the upper body 10 times gently…repeat three times. If you do your ab work with both or one foot on the floor it is much safer for the back and easier to create a concavity in the belly. There are so many easy and fun core exercises that tone and support like forearm plank with knee to elbow or even breathing exercises like Kapalabhati and Nauli.
Note: You may have seen many people using Boat Pose (Navasana) for core work; however, this pose is mostly a hip flexor strengthener and many people are uncomfortable sitting on their tailbone. In fact, when I was in India for 5 months practicing Ashtanga, I had a huge bruise on my tailbone from this pose.
A FULL RANGE OF MOTION
What do we mean when we say hip openers? Most of us think of Pigeon Pose or foot-behind-the-head, but that is only one angle of our complex and amazing hips. The question we have to ask ourselves is what do we want our physical posture to be when class is over? The hope is that we walk taller, breathe deeper and are more open and stronger in the body.
2. Creating space is crucial.
Learn to lengthen out of the joint and not bear down or grind. Hyper-flexibility and hyper-mobility should not be the goal for anyone. Too often I see practitioners compressing the low back rather than creating space, I see the head of the femur pushing too far forward or grinding to far back in the hip. To take your body into an extreme position and then move it even a little is like taking a twig, bending it in half and then twisting.
Try instead to be conservative. Go slowly, practice daily, with great awareness and your body will share its secrets.
3. The order in which you open the body is important.
Remember that the sequence of poses is often as important as the poses themselves. For a hip class above the waist, you will need a twist, forward fold, side bend, and backbend. For below the waist, you will want a hamstring, groin, quad and IT band stretch. I like to end with quads and IT band to lift the front of the body and set the leg on straight.
If you were to end class with a forward fold, you would stand afterwards with a hint of forward fold. Likewise, if you were to end with a backbend, you would leave class with remnants of a backbend. Of the two I prefer the backbend as most of us are working to counter a hunched “working at the computer” posture.
In conclusion the process of yoga includes more than just the physical – it is an amazing journey not only into the body, but also the mind and spirit. I hope that all yoga classes learn to integrate a clear foundation in anatomy with intelligent alignment, light hands-on adjustments, and ever-evolving flows to heal the body. I try to teach students to cultivate a deep passion for self-examination and light-hearted exploration. I encourage them to drop everything in order to find out that when we hold on to nothing, what is left is all we truly need.